Why do i bother about what other people said?
Why do i bother about how other people think?
Am i really thinking unecessarily?
M said : Don't rebut with people. If it's other people's target, don't rebut with them.
My mind says : I'm not rebut-ing cz i know i don't stand a chance when comes to rebut. I am never a confidence girl. I always do the wrong things at the wrong time.
I never win. So i must be totally nuts if i think i stand a chance to fight with people. And tht's why i never fight with people.
He said: Dont think too much... u ar... always think too much....
I guess that's the difference between men and women. Men dont think, women do consider a lot of factors, trying to analyse the pros and cons until sometimes i can say till an extreme level.
Well, that's me i guess.
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kr here..
about thinking too much, you are definitely not alone. I have a lot of those, it's just that often times i just dont reveal to friends or people...but ppl dont know how emo i am at home, when i rant so much to my parents in my hostel room. everyone has the same problems, just that people just put on a mask n pretend that everything's alright. If you have tentatively decide on what to do, go ahead. You cant control how ppl think, and actually perhaps the situation isnt so bad like how you perceive to be. It's really natural to think about issues that we cant really control. wrong or right decision, is a subjective matter.
You have our support, girl. Dont be too hard on yourself.
and also, there are times when we feel down and useless. And when we are happy, we feel like we are on top of the world and everyone else.
You are a confident person, just that sometimes there are issues that may bog you down. It's just a small rough patch. otherwise you are perfectly fine. If that situation doesnt work out, turn to people that you can trust, study hard cause that's what you should do. then you will feel much better when you set your priorities straight. when you are able to lift up a weight/burden, must also able to let it go.
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